Wedding Ready?

‘Tis the season, wedding season and it’s inevitable that someone will ask me, “what do I wear?”. The questions I ask is “What kind of wedding is it? Will it be hot, cold or humid? Formal or casual?”. I even ask what kind of food will be served. It may sound ridiculous but it’s a serious question. We all know certain cultures love to feed their loved ones, and I have no issues with that, however I make sure I’m prepared.

First thing’s first, read the details on the invitation. Most invites specify the attire which I must say is very helpful (*useful tip for those who plan on tying the knot). Most of the time a formal attire is expected. What’s formal anymore? That’s another post for another day. For those who don’t know anymore, you definitely want to dress up. I always say, it’s alway better to be over than under. Pull out the pearls, Swarovski crystals and cubic zirconias (or diamonds). Go crazy. It’s an occasion and certainly something great to celebrate. So don’t be shy to be SEEN.

For a summer or hot destination wedding, keep it loose and flowing. Maybe a long dress, off the shoulder, with a bottom that moves with the wind – literally. The last thing you want is clingy material in the heat. I’m from Montreal, and believe it or not that city feels those hot and humid summers. I myself have made the mistake of wearing the wrong thing, and felt drips of sweat rolling down my legs and onto my feet (TMI, sorry). The point is that you always want to be comfortable. Make sure the material is light and non-restrictive. You may want to grab a shawl for the night, just in case the temperature drops drastically.

Autumn and winter weddings. I hope for your sake you don’t get invited to a mid-February wedding. It happened to me once. Let’s just say I was sipping on more tea than wine. If that’s the case, make sure you go with the thicker material. Something fitted and long-sleeved. Another great look is a princess skirt as a bottom and a fancy crop top to complete the outfit. You might want to do a thick cashmere shawl or even a faux-fur shrug (I won’t judge you if you wear real fur). These pieces usually dress up your look, with the right accessories of course. I also suggest wearing tights or nylons in cooler temperatures, as it’s more fitting and adds class to the outfit. That’s just me though.

This past weekend I attended my friend’s wedding in British Columbia, Canada. It was honestly one of the most beautiful weddings I’ve ever witnessed. To be honest, before going I had no idea what to wear (i know, not a real problem). An outdoor wedding in June, and on the mountaintop. Although it’s summer, it still meant I had to take backup layers for this wedding because those BC mountaintops are chilly. Lucky for us the weather was beautiful and although chilly on the mountain, the sun kept us warm during the ceremony. My dress was from Nordstrom, by Bardot and although not loose and flowing, it was just perfect. The day wasn’t too hot, and it definitely cooled down at night. I showed off my open shoulder with an updo bun, and wore my simple “diamond” button earrings with a dainty necklace. I’ll also say that my Lulu Guinness lips clutch completed my outfit, and held more nonsense that I could imagine.

It’s important to look good and fit in at a wedding. As guests we end up in countless pictures and videos – memories that last a lifetime. Sometimes it just takes a little more thought to find the perfect outfit for a long day.

Wearing Cause

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Most of us may already know that beauty and fashion are multibillion-dollar industries. It’s quite evident that I contribute as a consumer, also because it’s my hobby. No guilt there yet. However, I do confess that I feel the guilt when I think about where my money could or should have gone. I’ve become more mindful of my fashion/beauty spending, and have been doing research on how I can contribute to local or international charities/foundations while shopping. I know, the first thought most of us have is, “how do we know are money is going where they say it’s going?”.  I ask myself that all the time when asked to donate. Sometimes I’d rather personally give my money to an individual or cause to know it’s in fact making a difference. So it’s understandable that there may be that skepticism when giving away money. I don’t blame anyone because I’m a skeptic myself! In any case, I do my research on different companies and organizations, and I use my discretion on the cause.

With that said, I’m sure you’re wondering what a picture of me chilling on my couch has anything to do with giving back. This week I decided to use M.A.C’s Viva Glam.  This line is a public charity which donates to an AIDS fund. Every penny of their sales from the product line go straight to the fund which was established in 1994. I’m also proud to mention that it started in the lovely Toronto (#OhCanada). This has since evolved over the years and has touched the many lives of those affected by AIDS/HIV. It also brings educational programs to communities to teach people how to prevent the disease. Since it’s establishment many celebrities such as Nicki Minaj, RuPaul and Rihanna have been faces of the product line, but most importantly voices for the cause.

The cause I’m wearing today is Viva Glam III on my lips, and I love how it perfectly matches my kimono. I may not be a spokesperson for a cause…yet, but I believe each person can make a difference while doing something they love. #VIVAGLAM #WEARINGCAUSE

BBT – Beach Bum Threads

 

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I’m a wanderlust…well I try to be when time permits. Like many, I travel not to say i’ve been somewhere, but to explore, learn and share the beauty of what this world has to offer. I love to analyze cultural differences, with the purpose of understanding the human race, and trying to understand what divides us. I can honestly say that between food, music and people, we are not that different from each other. We are a species that mostly values love from family and friends. We love to have fun and we always celebrate with food and/or alcohol.

I travel light. I hate weight or bulk as baggage. One thing that’s certain is that I always make sure to pack my bikini. I’m a beach bum. With deep roots from the islands, the beach and sand is in my blood – I think it could literally be. To be honest, most of my chosen destinations are hot. I’ll get to the cold ones later on in my life when wearing a bikini is inappropriate. I get frustrated with the limited swimwear selection in Canada. I was devastated the day I learned Victoria Secret (except for Pink) ended their swimwear line. Ok…devastated is probably a bit dramatic. Since then I decided to be a little more patient. Not that I wasn’t already familiar with Winners and Marshalls, but let’s just say I stalk their swimwear section on a regular basis, it’s like a second job for me. Some people say they don’t have time for those two stores because of the chaos of mixed up clothing. I on the other hand call it a hobby. I love to go on a quiet “random day of the week” evening and take my time to look through the items. It’s almost therapeutic for me. Basically, I’ve walked out with some unique pieces, including swimwear. One of my most recent finds were these beautiful coverups by Kareena’s. For that elegant but sexy sneak peek look at a reasonable price one can’t go wrong. I rocked mine in the lovely Los Cabos, Mexico at the JW Marriott. They’re great to throw on for lunch or if you feel like hiding certain parts that may be noticeable to mankind. If you ever get your hands on these beauties just be sure to hand wash yours – don’t say I didn’t tell you so.


coverup → Kareena’s
glasses → Roots
earrings → Aldo Accessories

Never Judge a Person by Their Attire?

So I woke up for work on this lovely day and as usual I asked myself the same questions I do every morning, “what am I going to wear?” and “what’s the weather today?”. As I turned over and looked out the window and saw the spring snow falling, I only wanted to slip on my Lululemons with my big hoodie and rock it to work. Of course I would never do such a thing. I snapped out of it and slipped on my comfy sear skirt and cotton turtleneck to complete a sharp black ensemble. However, I must admit I have my days where I just want to roll into work like it’s a Saturday morning, and then I remember those words.

Growing up I was always told to look presentable, it doesn’t matter where you’re going – school, work or a late run to the grocery store for that Haagen Dazs (guilty!). You never know who you’re going to meet. They say you should never judge a book by its cover. At times I find it a little hypocritical in the sense that the first thing we see when we meet someone is what they’re wearing. Even without speaking to someone before they open their mouth, the human mind automatically begins judging and formulating biases. This could be based on race, physical features, scent, and yes, clothing. The “cover” in this context is overall appearance. Is it right? No, but we can’t always control human nature. Although we should not trust too much in appearances, it’s still the first thing we see.

A huge part of my career is interviewing people on a daily basis. Because of that, the first thing I’m drawn to when I meet people is their appearance. Although this is technically the last criteria I judge them on, it’s still the first thing I see. Keeping in mind that not everyone can afford the wardrobe of a superstar, however it’s not about who you’re wearing but what you’re wearing, where and how you’re wearing it. The truth is we live in a time where people don’t respect attire. We wear running shoes and flip-flops to weddings, jeans to church, and baseball caps in restaurants. We’ve lost the sense of style. The fun in dressing up, and even dressing down at appropriate times.

I always say that it doesn’t take much to look presentable. With the right clean threads, a smile, and a final touch of confidence, anyone can look good. But to feel good, that starts from within.


skirt → Rudsak
turtleneck → Wilfred
shoes → BCBG
mug → Winners

 

 

 

Welcome To My “Closet”

bui-bao-417691-unsplashWelcome. Let me start off first by saying this has been long overdue. What is this? To be honest, I don’t know exactly, but definitely the beginning of something great. Like many, I too decided that I want to share my passion for threads, style, the art of fashion. You see, we all interpret art differently. The same way one may stare at a painting for hours and get nothing out of it. Someone else might point out one detail and make you see everything differently. That’s the beauty of fashion. Despite how ugly the color or pattern may be, someone out there knows how to work that piece. It takes that one person to make you see the beauty of it all. Fashion is about embracing your uniqueness and expressing yourself, regardless of how “haute” the “couture” may be, or thrifty it may look. It adds the final touch of who you are.

I’m a proud Canadian – originally from Montreal. The city of fashion, love and arts. I grew up surrounded by all of it, including great food and partying. Let’s not focus on the last two *smirk*. Although it has been some time since I left the beautiful Montreal, she has never left me. I take her everywhere I go. She has taught me style, culture, diversity, and so much more. From my ballet days, to winning a Miss Canada title, and currently in my sophisticated career – I still embrace all of these elements.

The analogy of  my “closet” is my world of fashion surrounded by travel, music, and lifestyle. In that there will be purpose, culture and adventure. May you enjoy every piece, every moment, and every word.

photo credit: Bui Bao @syderbao91